I’ve had three kids. We’ve discussed this, correct? This means three distinctly different times I went through the un-glamourous phase of “post-baby sex.” Let’s face it, the overall feeling about post-baby sex is that it’s anything but sexy.
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Boobs. Knockers. Ta-tas. Jugs. There are a dozen different names for breasts. And for all that we spend inordinate amounts of time talking about breasts and their place in American culture, what we most certainly do not talk about enough is breast cancer. October is Breast Cancer Awareness month. Let’s take a moment to consider our breasts, not as part of our sexual anatomy, but as part of our bodies that need maintenance and care to ensure we live long and healthy lives.
It may be cliché, but there is nothing like a good long soak in the tub after a long week of deadlines, fighting children, packing lunches and bosses with halitosis breathing down your neck. Create a “crappy week decompression kit,” also known as a collection of the finest lotions and potions to achieve the prefect bubble bath, and leave your worries behind.
I’m a child of divorce. Because of this, initially, I went into marriage thinking once you had children, they came first. It was a warped interpretation of how I thought a couple needed to approach marriage. Somehow, I had twisted all of the difficulty of being the child of divorced parents into this idea that I had to put my children before everyone, including myself and my husband, otherwise I’d be terribly selfish. I was completely wrong, of course, and my marriage bares the scars to prove it.
We hear all the time that men are visual creatures and that they’re stimulated sexually by visual images. This is a completely true statement. What I think gets overlooked is, while women are typically sexually stimulated by actions or words that speak to the emotional parts of their brains, they are undoubtedly turned on by a hot guy in his birthday suit. Think about it. Channing Tatum isn’t über popular because he appeals to our intellectual side, OK?
Exercise is good for our mind, body, and soul. Right? Right. We exercise to keep our hearts strong, to fortify our bones, and, often times, to help keep our weight in check. In summary, exercising is sexy.
What I’m thrilled to see now in the fitness world is purposefully sexy approaches to working out. Because sexy isn’t just about your body (actually, contrary to what the media tells you, it has very little to do with your body). It’s about your mind. Exuding confidence and a sense of self is the number one way to be the sexiest woman in the room. So, let’s talk about some of the sexiest forms of exercise out there.
People like to make jokes about lube. And there’s a ridiculous stigma sometimes associated with using lubricant during sex. I have many opinions on why, but I’ll save those for another day. There are many reasons you should have not just one, but many types of sexual lubricant on hand.
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